Thanks for checking Okipuit.

You missed my point that while not every party will let you do this, it's completely possible to do what you describe in an ordinary abyssea party (especially if you're friends with someone in the party)
That's true, though the last few times I went to Altepa it was a pretty standard thing to boot anyone that went afk for an extended period of time, especially if they never mention anything, mostly because people prefer to keep it as a single alliance at the dolls so it doesn't get really confusing.