Daniolaut I am so sorry you are experiencing this kind of play for someone so new. What you need is a NICE LS which are hard to find. Especially for being on my server.
Best news I can give you is that I know of some LSs that are perfect for you to keep you occupied during the hard times.
http://www.cynosure-online.com/forums/
is one I highly recommend. Speak to Grommet or post on the forums. They have been around for years and are great for returning and new players. Or just look for me, granted I am afk a lot
/Unctgtg