New poster here so don't fire at me right away just because of that. I love RDM. I have played almost no other class since i started leveling it 2 months after i started playing in '05. Lots of jobs need some love from the FFXI staff but rdm of course holds a special /vested interest for me.
I wish everyone would stop the RDM/BLU comparison. They are both hybrids but in different fashions. RDM is a full hybrid having access to all spells and combat abilities at all times. BLU is a situational hybrid that has to limit its spell list to fully maximize it's melee or mage capabilities and go for the best set of job traits.
Think of like it school. Blu can get some A grades but other areas have to fall behind to do so. Not all and not by much but still some areas do suffer. RDM is a solid B student doing all things well but not making the honor roll.
What I've noticed as a melee loving RDM is we are getting kinda left behind in P.E. unless we want to really pull out the stops and sacrifice everything for it.
My wife plays DRG/SAM and we like to duo a lot. I always try to joke and out DD her but we know it'll never happen nor do i think i should. I WOULD like to keep pace a little more with her though. When i have to have a pure melee set with no mage enhancing abilities and dual-weilding so i can hit 4-6 times in a round to still never have a mob look at me.... is a little disheartening.
Quick recap/ tl;dr - 1. Rdm is not BLU. Blu makes sacrifices to be better in some areas while weaker in others. RDM should be all things out of the box. 2. RDM just needs a little melee loving to make it what the job is meant to be.
P.S. to those "Go be BLU then" people... spell farming for hours on end? No thanks. I'll stick to buying them like i have for years and keep playing the only class i love.