SAM and DNC
Personally I go mainly for STR/att and if you find yourself fighting something where you're low on acc, use acc food. You'll want some DEX thrown in there, but a lot of the gear you choose will have DEX as well as STR I imagine.
Empyrean Armour set (+2) is a fairly good base set. Brego head and hands and a Goading Belt will help to cap haste.
Proccing. Level all of your weapons up in skill. The higher the better. (you can leave out axe)
If you're really serious about WAR, you'll want a Ukonvasara
Bluegartr tends to be better for the more recent stuff.
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