Quote Originally Posted by Xantavia View Post
I understand what the OP is saying. I might be reading it wrong, but the issue is that so many people have gotten in the habit of leeching, you can't make a party to fight anything anymore.

I think the last invite I got even to an abyssea party was a complete waste. Out of 15 people, maybe 5 of us were actively doing anything. The other 10 were scattered around the area, and the few low level players there weren't even keying chests.

I understand that it should be up to the leaders to boot anybody not pulling their weight (unless it was agreed upon ahead of time), but it gets really frustrating when everybody wants to leech and nobody wants to contribute.
Then do what I've done with my shell mates, grab a few friends *GASP OMG THOSE EXIST* and go kill things in a three or four man group. If your friends don't want to help you level something 30+, or you all have low jobs you want to level, then sync down to the lowest member and do GoV / FoV as a group.

Otherwise it's just people wanting to force their will on others, everyone wants to make the rules but no one wants to play by them.