I asked these questions as I agree that we should be able to buff other melee's near us. SE's answer was they wanted WHM to be the specialize in AoE buffing with white magic. Which I took to mean that they don't want RDM's putting out buffs on other party members.I just can't comprehend why they gave RDM self-cast versions of enhancing magic and gave WHM AoE versions. They keep calling WHM they healing specialist yet they get like 70% of our spells in AoE form. Why not let WHM only have AoE Cures/Heals, let BLM have only AoE nukes and let RDM be the specialist of AoE debuffs and AoE enhancing? If RDM had Hastega/Protectra/Shellra/Bar-a and Enspell-ga we'd garner more worth in parties yet for some reason they gave AoE's to other classes and left RDM at self-cast.
Our melee is a damn sight better then F-/D-, near NIN / THF / DNC group depending on target. Most people got this image stuck in their head of an AF wearing RDM swinging an underleveled sword. What RDM is lacking is uber gear, I have pretty much the best melee set you can build for RDM and my body if from level 75. Parts of my WS set are from 75, and most newer gear was slightly upgrades from older gear. We were kept off the truly awesome stuff (Toci / Athos's / ect..) and put on the every mage gear which absolutely sucks.
For example, I looked over the Rub set and other then the legs, it all sucks for RDM. It's literally just a weak version of our Emp +2 set, basically an enfeebling set for WHM, BLM and SCH. This is the crap I get pissed at, if your going to put RDM on a mage set then it better be a damn good mage set (like Emp) now some crappy set that stats worse then those from 90.