I dunno.

Me and my friends get stuff done and all have at least one Empyrean weapon.

But we have fun.

What could that possibly mean?

Oh yeah. People who don't run around with massive inferiority complexes, linking being good at FFXI to being a jackass, already understand that the two are completely independent concepts. There are jackass, workaholic noobs (TONS). There are chill, laid back elites (eg: everyone I associate myself with, and there are plenty). The only thing you're spreading is ignorance.

People like you are part of the problem, not the solution.