Then tell people to fuck off, if they want you to play their way then they can pay for your account. Its a game not a job, and if you don't find yourself having fun because other people "don't let you" then that is your business. Been over this with you many times before. As long as you are doing what you were invited to do, people don't give a shit what else you do.

Unfortunately RDM isn't invited to do anything because it offers nothing that isn't available from it as a support job, and no increasing its melee viability isn't going to magically get it a party invite, increasing its healing viability won't magically get it an invite, increasing its nuking capability won't magically get it an invite. Unless SE of course makes RDM better then a WAR, or WHM, or BLM.

Again the only way we will be sought after is if we can provide something useful to the group that either stacks with other abilities/buffs/debuffs, or is unique in its own way. At this point that is Enhancing and Enfeebling changes, and again to hell with your melee oriented buffs, Id I don't feel like meleeing I don't want to be forced to do so to apply buffs and debuffs. Currently I can buff and debuff while meleeing healing nuking, which is versatile, every mob I engage I can perform a different task, while supporting the party.

Grow a back bone already, you been moaning for years about this melee shit, while some of us have actually been doing it for years, because we don't let other players tell us how we should be having fun.