Stop Player Bashing

[Greatguardian]

I wear the Aurore hat and gloves because they have str dex and/or agi on them with the haste which overall helps thf better than the dusk gloves and walmart turban. (sylph term if nobody else has heard of that before).

Just for clarification, assuming that you are actually swapping gear for TP and WS, Walahra Turban and Dusk gloves still contribute more damage than Aurore head/hands despite their Str/Dex/Agi; especially in Abyssea where dDex and fStr are capped most of the time.

Edit: Even if you're not swapping gear, Turban/Dusk should still add more damage.

I actually had somebody tell me that once after being invited to their party. I was mad they wouldn't let me party just because I didn't have either of those on my War. So, that's why I asked when you don't like players getting mad at you because you don't them play with you if they're poorly geared. Your version of poorly geared is different than other people's version. That was an example.

I'm not sure I comprehend this entirely. Someone getting mad at me for kicking them for using bad gear is no better than me getting mad at them for having bad gear. I'm not mad. I don't get mad when I see people using bad gear. I usually give them the benefit of the doubt and assume they don't know better. If they want to learn, I'll teach them. If they don't want to learn, I'll ignore them. If they insist that it's their right to do whatever they want, I'll insist it's mine not to have to carry them through whatever I'm doing. Any damage they're losing by not gearing properly has to be made up for somewhere.