A) get a "NEW" linkshell usually chat is better since alot of people on it sometimes that be able too help your Q&A.
B) Meet new friends stay on server till you reach more than lvl 20 alot of people in other servers usually have all jobs above lvl 30 since alot of people don't like qufim days.
C) Try too get high enough lvl too enter abyssea see if a buddy can give you a hand too lvl up quicker.