PLAY THE WAY YOU WANT!

Don't shy yourself from other jobs either because their abilities and traits can benefit Red Mage if you're using 'em for subs.

Remember, Rdm is half mage and half fighter, that's why most people would say "level all of your jobs".

It takes skill to be a good rdm, not just time. Take time to explore the world, make friends, learn how they would play and learn the job but play your own way.

People don't make the rules, there's only deductions of what works the best. Through trial and error, battles can be won soloing or within a party.

Most people you dictate how you should play probably don't enjoy to die hence they hate failing a lot. Part of a good win is failing first than learning from your errors. When you go back, you decide how many times you want to repay that monster and pound it! (hehehe)

Goodluck, enjoy and have fun!