I don't get your "there is no gear past level 90", you can add gear yourself in motenten's spreadsheet and customize it the way you want it.
Anyway, the one I'm using has a lot of lv95 gear, has been updated october the 14th if I recall.

To get back to your questions now, are you asking for gear outside or inside abyssea? As I'm sure you already know, you're probably gonna need different setups.
Inside abyssea stuff like STR tiers and accuracy won't matter, outside it's a different issue.
What are you fighting outside? Which food are you using? How much acc you need?
Depending on this ACC gear might be better in several slots.
There are instances were stuff like Elemental Gorget and Elemental Belt are gonna beat stuff like Beir Belt+1 and Rancor Collar, for example.

Going more into specific and your earring: If Bruiser brings you up a h2h tier, it's gonna be moderately better than Aesir, if you need acc, Kemas is gonna be better than both.
So, unless you're acc capped: Kemas > Bruiser (if it brings you up a tier) > Aesir.
It has to be noted that at level 95 if you have 8 h2h merits you're gonna be at 397 skill, just enough for Bruiser to count. Thinks will get messed up if you use Faith Torque.

As for neck slot: Rancor is gonna be better outside thanks to the fact it also has acc+6. Were it just 5% crit other options might have been better, but gladly it ALSO has +6 acc Faith is a close next especially if it brings you uo a tier and Cirque is nice as well, so Rancor > Faith > Cirque.

Feet now: Usukane, Savateur's and probably even Aurore and Enkidu are gonna be better than AF3+2. You're at 24% haste without, that's a huge loss in DPS (both inside and outside Abyssea).
Usukane should be the winner here, slightly above Savateur's I think. If "your dps is lower" you probably configured your parser the wrong way, or just eyeballed stuff. Please use the spreadsheet or get a larger sample in your parser if you want to test again, and you'll see Usukane easily win over AF3+2

Back: Pantin and Vellaunus are pretty close but the second is ahead.


Talking about gear for your Weapon Skill now, assuming you're gonna use Victory Smite. Of course things are different if you're gonna use Stringing Pummel, normally STR will have less relevance and Att will count more compared to Vsmite.

Neck: Rancor is a clear winner here, at least inside Aby. Outside it depends. If those +6 acc doesn't acc-capp you then you might be better with Elemental Gorget.

Earring: Damagewise Aesir is better than Vulcan, but Kemas might perform better if you need the Acc.

Body: Toci's > Juogi +1 > Ocelomeh +1 > Juogi > Ocelomeh > Usukane > Cirque+2.
Usu and Cirque+2 are very close, the latter is better for SP of course. Difference between Juogi and Ocelomeh is almost non suxistant, Toci is quite ahead of Juogi+1. Juogi+1 and Ocelomeh+1 are both quite ahead of Cirque+2, at least for Vsmite.
Please re-test with larger sample data and in better testing conditions.

Waist: Beir+1 > Pipilaka. Pipi probably better outside aby if you need the acc. But then again Elemental belt might be better than Pipi as well, that's especially true for Stringing Pummel.

Back: Vellaunus and Pantin are once again very close. Pantin probably better outside because of the Dex (i.e. acc)

Legs: I know you don't have Usukane, but that's exactely why you should work on them. Doesn't take much these days. Can use Alcide+1 until you get Usu

Rings: Absolutely use Epona's in one of the two slots