Hey guys, I'm new to FFXI (Well...Sorta) and am looking to get into the party thing, the only thing is, it would definitely appear that the game has dated itself, and after walking up to a few higher level players and receiving nothing but negative responses, I've almost given up on it.

I'm still in the free trial phase, but at this rate I'm definitely not looking at paying monthly for the game. What would you guys recommend I do? Should I change servers (Currently on Fenrir) or should I just keep looking? Recommendations? Ideas?

I'm an English speaker exclusively, too, so that also limits my range.