Quote Originally Posted by Zatias View Post
If you see a car parked in your usual spot, do you push it out of the way with your car or key it because it's in YOUR spot? No, you find a different one. If your answer is yes to this question, then you need mental help XD
Haha. :]


It is a bit rude, yes, since they obviously see you are there first.

Of course, they have the right to do so, since it's a kind of a 'free-for-all' system.
I haven't really done group things like this for a long time, though, so just as you mentioned, I would also just move elsewhere, or if I see another person/group at where I am going and can't really team up, I'll just go somewhere else.

Competing with other players is not why I ever played Final Fantasy XI, there are other games for that, and I never really saw FFXI as one of them, what comes to regular came-play.
Only time I really have been fighting for a monster is Charybdis (or Chabit as Icream would call it), back when it really mattered.
Gotta say that while I really don't like that aspect of this game, it did feel really good to win over the many likely botters and whatnots, and vanquish the foe even. Still, since it is a non-PvP environment, this kind of things are not a plus in my opinion.

But I digress.

As you feel, I feel; it is a bit rude but well, that's what the game allows and is, and there's not much we can do about it but the best way I have found to get over it is to just not waste energy into being frustrated, or even angry about it.


I'll stop now, before I go over yonder. ^^
Just some thoughts~