"Do you need help with anything?"
"Do you want free gil?"
"Do you want an LS that will hand you an Empyrean?"
And this is coming from someone who married a guy she met through FFXI lol.
This is why most guys are so helpful to girls ingame really, they think there could be some kind of rl relationship that might flourish out of it and it happens quite a fair amount too so there is something in those hopes.