Pathing is a problem, but costing fights, never really happened to me before. Costing claims, yeah.
So, basically, you are asking for a "Stay" command, or really, just "Follow."You misunderstood me. I am not saying 'Get rid of avatars attacking things that attack us'. I'm saying 'If I tell my Avatar not to attack, I want it not to attack.' Make it a separate command if you want. There are times when I am using an Avatar for favor to support mages and I don't want it running away from me.
That is ok I guess. Not really needed, but still ok.
I'm guessing you are telling the truth about being a SMN before CoP even though I thought it came out when CoP came out, but I could be wrong (I'm an XBOX beta tester, I came with ToAU).I've been a SMN since before CoP. I did the solo fork fights all by myself. Trust me on this, I know what I'm talking about. Even if a mob is slept, if I cure the person who slept the mob, my avatar WILL attack the slept mob. The avatar AI is only smart enough to perceive hate, not judge if there is an actual threat from a slept mob. The second I get high enough on that hate list, BOOM, it attacks.
I'm just offering three small fixes here. Trying to get Bahamut or what have you is a lot less realistic.
But still, don't cure the person who slept the mob. They can cure themselves. You shouldn't be on the hate list at all for all the slept mobs, nor should you be back-seat curing people who can cure themselves (BLMs have no excuse, they can Drain mobs being fought at the very least).