Frustration and not getting help

[Chakoteh]

Never had a problem getting my LS mates to help me with missions or quests and the LS is able to do everything it wants to do. I've been with some members for near 4 years now and though we are not always the fastest to get things done--we do get things done that our LS members need done.

When I decided I wanted to get rank 10 in all nations, I found a buddy to go with me to the first I chose, we duo'd a good bit and got help with the rest. For the last nation, I went alone, did what I could solo, got LS mates here and there to help when they weren't busy, but ended up spending about 6 weeks in Windy to get to rank 10-- I was patient and waited until my mates had time.

Now I want to get back on WoTG missions and finish them up, so I've looked at FFXIAH to see who has the info there, see if there are peeps I've become 'acquainted with' over the years, and will try to get that rolling again... and I will but with patience.

Biggest problem we have is we need people to post at the website and let the leaders know what is needed. I will also note that we are not big on helping those who will not help themselves, as in find out the prerequisites for a mission, get them done so when we get people together the person in need is ready.

Last, I have to say that too many are in too much of a hurry. We have had some join the LS and bombard us with "can someone help me with..." and if they don't get an IMMEDIATE response or promise of help they leave the LS, which is fine and dandy. I find nothing about this game that requires immediate doing; we help each other and we get things done. I've helped everyone I could, farm spells, scrolls, missions, quests... you name it, and when I ask for help--I get it. It's all about give and take and patience...

Also, I found a decent endgame shell that I was with for a while and that helped too. I owe my dyna relic and most abyssea gear so far to being with them for 3 years.

Inafking, I hope you find a good LS that can accommodate you and that you like. I feel very fortunate to have met such quality peeps right when I first started playing.