I dunno, I guess it just boils down to what kind of player you are, I've seen some pretty aweful GREAT players on jobs that are not their mains in exp parties, I've also seen players that refuse to let themselves be that GREAT aweful player, and skill and gear as well as their wallets and time will allow for the jobs before they exp on them.

There are those that 1/2 the effort, and 1/2 the gear gets them by and there is nothing wrong with that if that's how they roll and the can get by like that.. becuase lets face it we were all there at one point. but.. if you can't pull your weight by putting in the time to be able to pull your weight... ... ya know?

I think this is more along the lines of "I didn't get the 20 levels I wanted and only got 2" and being pissed about it.

My point in my comment above was.... would a friend really be all that worked up over a bit of free experience in an exp party ( becuase they did get "some") that as far as they knew .. broke becuase other people wanted to go do vnm and apparently they themselves didn't?