Alot of your issues are to do with player skill imo i'll try and explain

1.No area map. = Fine would be a decent addtion

2.Disparity in ‘proc’ rates. = U can choose the proc by which mobs you pull so if ya don't like WS proc then done pull the mobs that have WS proc.

3. No emergency Raise. = This is a joke right here RR is 1 hour and undispelible if u just recast it with pro and shell it'll never were off and if it does were off it's to do with you forgetting it. Also if ur only RR/Raiser dies inside a group of mobs there is only one person to blame lol.

4.Killing your charmed competition.
Fanatic dance can be stunned hoestly removing the only part that makes some NMs challenging is a meh idea.

5.Quadav sound aggro and linkega.
ok u can SMN pull if it's that much of an issue

6.Pets depop when starting fight with zone boss etc.
Vaild point if ya spamming an NM

7.Only few safe camp spots for people targeting specific coins.
6 zones + u can sell/trade coins for the ones you want if it's that much of an issue

8. AF2 and base relic weapon junk clogging inventory.
Needs to be changed cause u forget to pass it .... if u have a massive issue with it just take ya old relic off the porter moogle and put in storage so it can't drop to you.