When you 3box, there are risks and that's part of dealing w/new XI.

I had a tale where a linkshell was watching me fight Ogopogo and as luck would have it, we got smashed by Tidal Wave at 1%. No Fanatic Powders etc etc.

Ogo went white and the LS and me had a battle of claims where eventually I lost and they killed it. I tossed a naughtyword by reflex but got an invite to lot my souls.

I felt like an ass. Rightfully so.

The PT leader who was also doing souls didn't want my pop to go to waste. Though I cursed like an asshurt crybaby, the group acted like adults, we both apologized and both parties reconciled.

tl;dr: For every group of jerks, there are level headed people who are willing to play ball. Being asshurt does nothing but make you look childish.