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[Tamarsamar]

I understand precisely what's going on. Both of you are trying to come off as if what each of you has to contribute to the discussion is more valuable, to promote some sense of self-worth, perhaps. When in reality, you're both right, and simply are talking in circles now.

Not that I can blame you. I just fell in to that same trap myself. But it's no reason to be so defensive about it.