There's nothing pathetic about this.
You're acting like a child here, and you're being incredibly ignorant on the subject.
Have you forgotten about this?:
http://wiki.ffxiclopedia.org/wiki/Tidal_Talisman
That item was amazing, and damned if many people were ever able to get the stupid thing. You had to buy a cheap piece of jewelry (which wasn't in fact cheap at all, it cost a pretty penny and wasn't reasonable to afford as I recall) to get the reward code for the item. What's even more a kick in the ass about that item, was that the reward code had a limited time in which it could be redeemed. If you didn't use your code immediately, you were screwed. If you wanted to buy the code off someone else for less than the insane price of the jewelry - you didn't have very long to do so.
This item is arguably better, costs a hell of a lot less to obtain, and is being released with a discounted version of the
full game. That is an incredible deal. And yes, furthermore you don't have to buy it and you don't want to buy it, you've made that painfully clear already.. So don't, go rage someplace else if a
video game item for a measly $20 is going to ruin your day so much as this.