Originally Posted by
Merton9999
Would you be happy if you went to a restaurant and had to beat the chef at a cook-off to get the meal you already paid for? How about a bar that requires you to best the bartender at an armwrestling match before he gives you the beer you purchased?
I already work for what I get in FFXI from SE. It's my 10-hour per day career. I use the money from that to pay to play a game. I shouldn't be expected to work for anything in that game. If the process of gaining something (exp, baubles, skills), is enjoyable, I'll do it for the fun factor.
Old exp parties, NM camping, etc. were fun for a while. They aren't anymore, for me. That's obviously the real issue people are differing on - what constitutes fun for them. To be bring duty and hard work into it is ridiculous. It's some weird attempt to make yourself seem more responsible than other people when you should just keep it at "I like it" and be done with it.
I'll never do anything in FFXI because I feel I need to earn it from SE. I've already done that. Earning help from other players is a different story, and I'll do that gladly with give and take. But that's not at all necessary for exp anymore.