Originally Posted by
Malamasala
DRK doesn't have it bad at all from what I can tell. It is roughly in the same situation as all the other 15 jobs that doesn't fit into the "I can tank and DD" WAR / MNK class or "I can heal" WHM class or "I can march/scherzo" BRD class or "I can cover lots of grellow" BLM class.
It isn't near suffering the same stuff as SMN for sure. Like "Is a defensive tank support job, that sucks so much nobody puts you in a tank party" or "Has cure V, but will never be considered a healer anyway" or "Has a lot of spare time to melee, but always kept away from melee gear" not to mention "When pet gear is added, SMN is not on them just because it would make too much sense" or the classic "Expected to use /WHM to heal because the rest of the job is so poor".
Enough derailing, but you should get my point. DRK may be weak compared to other jobs, but it isn't like your melee job is not considered a melee. It would be much worse if people said DRK is a BLM job, because their melee is not worth it, only their nukes. Or if it was "Sub /WHM and heal DRKs! Your jobs sucks and /WHM is better!". Or why not "Don't use G Sword or Scythe, those weapons sucks. Use daggers or clubs instead".
Until you are down to those levels, I don't see the reason to worry. You are a DD focused on G Sword and Scythe that gets to play exactly as you were intended to play. I have a WHM in my LS who just loves playing DRK that he recently leveled. Perhaps being a WHM helps you stop caring about your damage numbers and just say "Hey, this is better than my other job".