Successful strategies are followed. People assume that because the first linkshells to do something did it that way, they need to continue doing it that way.
Typically, strategies are necessary longer, but the unprecedented change to level 100+ weapons has buffed people in a way we've never been buffed before. What I'm saying is, prior to the weapon buff, pugs shouting and shouting for a 4 song bard for Tojil has reason to it.
That being said, if I tried to go to a pug Tojil as bard and they declined me (and my bard is nicely geared for a non empy/horn), I wouldn't be offended. Leaders are simply trying to do everything they can to provide the win.
Not to mention, some groups barely win, or continue to lose, as it is. They're looking for all the help they can get.
I'm not trying to provide excuses, but only explanations. Personally I always try to frame my groups around the difficulty of the content I'm expecting to face.
