Signed in Blood

Evening all,

After about a 10 year or so break due to job, school and family, I have been able to clean up my plate a bit and get back into the game. Problem is some quests I started and cant remember where I left off on them. One of them being Signed in Blood. How do I know what I need to do in the quest. I tried to give the Cathedral Tapestry to Sobane but she wont take it. How do I know what step to take next and whats the best way to accomplish that step?

Speak to Sobane who will request you bring her a Cathedral Tapestry.
Trade the Cathedral Tapestry to Sobane.
Travel to Selbina and speak to Abelard (G-9).
Head to Ordelle's Caves obtain an Ordelle Chest Key off the monsters inside.
Use the key on a chest inside to receive Key Item Torn-out pages.
Return to Abelard.
Speak to Sobane to complete this quest.

Tried to trade the Tapestry to Sobane but she did not take it. I tried to talk to her and she said " Is Count Teulomme trully searching for the knight of Mistalle to cause him harm? I ask that you find this knight and warn him of danger he is in. Doe that mean I already did that step? And when I go to Selbina and talk to Abelard. What will be the tall tell sign that I already spoke to him and need to go to the caves? and what do you suggest I kill and when in the caves to get the Key?

Just go down the list. Hit each step to be certain you got it. If you've double checked every step up to the key

The key droppers are
Goliath Beetle
Napalm
Stroper
Goblin Furrier
Goblin Pathfinder
Goblin Shaman
Goblin Smithy
Stroper Chyme

You should get the pages, if you've double checked every step but aren't finished.