Which server should I join?

[TigerHeart]

Hello! I'm a returning player who wants to start the game over again. ^^ I'm going to be playing the game with my fiance and want to get onto a server that is both fairly active and noob friendly. Does anyone have suggestions for a good, friendly server?

[bungiefanNA]

Asura has the REDDIT linkshell, and Ragnarok has SanelyInsane, both active and helpful to new players.