From the moment of the game's re-release, the hardcore community began the rush to get 50. Or in some cases were already 50, capable of doing many things in end game content to get a leg up on the "competition" (?).
However, as many more people achieved 50 and began the grind of tomestones. I thought to myself as I watched the community shift. Like a plague that spread overnight it seemed.
What I talk about is the requirements party starters place on who is eligible to join their group. At first, some of it made sense. Like someone wanting to speed run an AK, needing the people already knowledgeable about the bosses rotations and mechanics. Since it was mostly only for AK, at that time, it was fine.
The problem really arises from how it [the community] continues to evolve into an even heavier fit of elitism. It spread to primals, needing to know the fight first hand before even being considered to join. Definitive lack of training runs, gear requirements (for garuda and titan is understandable).
Then, as many feared. Once you couldn't run past every mob in AK anymore, people once again tried desperately to find a path of least resistance in another dungeon for quick tomestones. Easiest next bet was Castrum. While people were concerned this would affect people who were new, doing it for story, I had thought to myself that there could be no way someone was so hardcore as to exclude new players from this very easy dungeon run. I was wrong.
Within the later weeks, as more and more people have been completing their sets of dark light gear and achieving their relics. Some of these party starters have once again risen the bar, placing things like CM under a "Don't join if you're new, go solo queue or do it with your FC"
While this is a good answer. Why in the world would someone need to get pigeon holed into such methods on such a mindlessly easy dungeon. It doesn't make sense, but whatever. So then you got the speed runners of the dungeon, then you have the ones left out who need to solo queue for it. But then, it doesn't really end there.
Even when I was still stuck on garuda, I heard people who had just gotten to Titan shouting for people who were only experienced in the fight. These people themselves had only just gotten here, and most of the population of the server wasn't even there yet, or just getting there. You can't become experienced in something if you are excluded for not having experience. Youtube videos help, but only to a certain extent.
Then again. Today I was in revenant's toll and I had seen a couple of shouts from certain people making parties for a CM run. They were demanding you have relic to join. You honestly needed a relic to join a story mission that you need to complete to even start a relic quest. The sheer backwards retardation of such a notion was so shocking that I refused to accept it and pass it off as a joke. While I have a relic, and near full dark light gear, I had actually refused to join something so ignorant. It was mind boggling that, here we are, little over a month in the game and hardcore players have already trashed it.
Part of the reason I ended up leaving FFXI way back when, was due to the same kind of player attitude that I'm seeing replayed in 14. I really hope it goes away, cause I'm not going to spend time in a game I love with players that ruin it for everyone else.