I'm not sure if this is the proper place for this sort of comment, but it seems like the most fitting.
I've run into a very unfun issue as of late. I have some very specific light and effect based sensitivities linked to my ASD. I've mitigated it for quite some time but I've come to resent what I lose in order to not end up with anxious
Summoner effects trigger my light sensitivity issues and cause dizziness and confusion. My answer for over a year now has been to turn off everyone else's effects, but honestly now the fights seem a lot more empty. Other attacks never caused this problem (with the exception of certain LB3s, but those are sparing enough that they're fine) but the frequent huge flashes and blasts from titan and ifrit create a slow-building tension that impact my ability to focus and play. I miss seeing bards fire their arrows and songs, ninjas doing their cool blasts, the breadth of a healer's big heal on the whole party... Watching my effects join those of others felt like contributing to a big fun thing. Having to turn them all off just makes the game that much less engaging to me. I turned them on again recently and realized what I had been missing, only to have my second roulette have a SMN whose summons just made me kinda sick and irritable.
Yes I have the pets turned to small. It's not enough. I still get flashbanged every 30 seconds (or however long it is). It's frustrating that my options are to either turn off other players' effects every time i'm in a party with a summoner OR turn them off always and just continue to put up with less game. It puts a major damper on my enthusiasm thinking that because I can't maintain mental stability with certain lights and effects. I would like a more nuanced option for what should or shouldn't be limited in the party effects menu settings. All, limited, or nothing isn't particularly useful when the problem isn't all effects, it's simply one subset of effects from one job.
Sorry if this is scattered and fragmented, I honestly don't know how to explain this sort of thing very well, but I wanted to say it somewhere. Maybe this doesn't seem super important to most, but I'm sure there are others who struggle to articulate similar problems so I wanted to at least try. Thank you for your patience.