Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[Deprox]

Well I think that's a pessimistic way to go about it actually o_o .

It's not pessimism it's reality. It's pure math. The numbers are real, the odds are real. Even if your server population is large the number of people who are going to post on here and say that they aren't able to move and still successfully find someone else from the same server on this forum would be ridiculously dwarfed by the number of people who just found people in their own server by every day means of just talking to people. Sure you can do it but you're likelihood of success is extremely small. To make that pool even smaller is if you are a male looking for a female, if you are only available during certain hours, etc.

[Deprox]

I'm talking about more after all this, say for example you learn and meet and find you get along, then they disappear or something happens and they cannot get on. You may decide your back to square one and you don't really want to pay yet again to transfer. Which honestly some might, those £12 do end up adding up over the time. I'm all for speculate to accumulate but there is also the point when it becomes too much.

Again we aren't talking about cost we're talking about opportunity. Each question that provides the answer No equates to a smaller pool size and some of those questions such as server transfer dramatically shrinks that pool size. That simple. Which goes back to my point of understanding and agreeing with why someone would abandon using this forum for meeting someone and go to a more local approach since their chances would be vastly improved.

[JumperX]

The most fair thing is if both people transfer to an unknown server for the two of them. If someone would transfer to a "random" server, then I will transfer as well with that person.

I think it would be a bit selfish if only one person transfers and the other just stay around their friends. Now that SE is going to allow us to keep in touch with friends cross server like in PF it would be a great opportunity to do

[Arutan]

Is it that time again where we have to get the pop corn in this thread

[Magic-Mal]

Each question that provides the answer No equates to a smaller pool size and some of those questions such as server transfer dramatically shrinks that pool size.

This thread essentially goes like this-

Example 1:

Server: <insert>
Willing to transfer: No
Personal Interests: Anime, manga, games, keyboards
Play schedule: <insert>
What kind of gamer are you: Hardcore. Raid a lot
Character Gender: Female, Male IRL
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: For some reason I can't explain, I don't know how to befriend guys so female preferred only
Character Race: Catgirl
Preferred Race: Miqo'te Seeker of the Sun female
Main class?: Warrior main, Dark Knight side
Dislikes: Liars, dishonesty, Lalafells and close-minded people
Goals for the game: Run casual content like dungeons and beat O4S
Goals for the marriage union: I just want the mount and glamour but something more into RL is a nice plus
Etc: I'm 23 and shy

Response Rate: 5%
Success Rate: Can't succeed if you don't get a response

Example 2:

Server: <insert>
Willing to transfer: Yes
Personal Interests: anime, music, games, hiking
Play schedule: <insert>
What kind of gamer are you: Casual to midcore. Meh
Character Gender: Male but change to female sometimed
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: Not really but female preferred
Character Race: Hyur
Preferred Race: Miqo'te, Au Ra, NO LALAS
Main class?: Scholar
Dislikes: Stubborn people, cats, liars
Goals for the game: Do things, spend time with partner
Goals for the marriage union: Enjoy the game together, become close friends maybe more
Etc: I'll buy both bands

Response Rate: 50%
Success Rate: 50%

Example 3:

Server: <insert>
Willing to transfer: No I have too many friends!
Personal Interests: art, music, cats, dogs, anime, books, reading, glamours, taking selfies and uploading to Show Your Miqo'te
Play schedule: <insert>
What kind of gamer are you: Hardcore!!
Character Gender: Female in-game and IRL
Do you care if the person is the same gender as as their character?: I don't mind
Character Race: Miqo'te
Preferred Race: Male Miqo'te, Male Hyur, Male Elezen, Male Au Ra, no roes, no lala(they creep me out)
Main class?: Astrologian
Dislikes: Dogs, dishonesty, veggies
Goals for the game: Level all jobs, finish story
Goals for the marriage union: Have fun in-game, become close friends, take cute selfies, cuddle, NO IRL
Etc:

Response Rate: 3,000%
Success Rate: 100% for a month

Example 4:

Server: <insert>
Willing to transfer: I'd like to stay but will transfer if we can make it work :]
Personal Interests: having a good time, anime, manga, movies
Play schedule: <insert>
What kind of gamer are you?: Casual to midcore, willing to try raiding
Character Gender: Female in-game and IRL
Do you care if the person is the same gender as as their character?: I don't mind it seriously but would prefer male
Character Race: Lalafell
Preferred Race: It doesn't matter!
Main class?: Bard
Dislikes: hypocrites, close-minded people, liars!
Goals for the game: Hope to try hardcore raiding sometime?
Goals for the marriage union: Have fun in-game, become close friends, chat in and out of game, build a nice house in the Beds, if it works out, we could try more
Etc:

Response Rate: -400%
Success Rate: 0%(then meets a hot Roe guy during Example 3's wedding, kick it off, meet IRL, marry, have 3 kids and live happily ever after

Example 5:

Server: <insert>
Willing to transfer: Sure thing
Personal Interests: anime, manga, kayaking
Play schedule: <insert>
What kind of gamer are you?: Everything
Character Gender: Male IG and IRL
Do you care if the person is the same gender as as their character?: I'm gay so would prefer male
Character Race: Miqo'te
Preferred Race: Highlanders are cool, don't really mind tho, just be male
Main class?: DRG
Dislikes: I honestly don't care
Goals for the game: Find some fun in this game. Maybe try Bahamut Ultimate?
Goals for the marriage union: Meet a cool guy and hang out. Maybe more if it goes well
Etc:

Response Rate: 80%
Success Rate: 100%(Will also later post the success story here. Because for some unknown reason only gay guys know how to make this succeed all the way and love each other)

[FadingMoon]

Putting this one back up. Added some information.

Posting for a friend~
Server: Midgardsormr
Willing to transfer: No I enjoy the server & fc I am currently in.
Personal Interests: Alcohol, gaming, anime, crafting, raiding, RP(sometimes ERP)
Play schedule: Canada time
What kind of gamer are you: Hardcore
Character Gender: Male (Irl Male as well)
Character Race: Miqote.
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Yes. I prefer female 20+if it gets serious.
Preferred Race: Female Miqo'te/Fem roe
Main class?: Dragoon
Dislikes: obnoxious assholes
Goals for in-game: fully stocked retainer, craft and make as much gil as possible. To be the best Dragoon on the server while helping others improve
Goals for the marriage union: Someone to get to know and eventually eternal bond with. I want to grow with the person. If it gets more serious and personal then we will see ♥
Etc: Thanks for taking the time to read all of that. My ultimate goal is to find a meaningful eternal bond with someone I am close to. If it gets more serious I wouldn’t be opposed to it, but getting to know each other is the first step! I am pretty quiet but will like to open up with you.
Discord: Does have one but reply to this first if interested.

[etherian]

This thread essentially goes like this-

Example 4:
Character Race: Lalafell

Response Rate: -400%
Success Rate: 0%

im laughing at this but idk why my tears keep falling

[Coratanni]

This thread essentially goes like this-

Example 1:

Response Rate: 5%
Success Rate: Can't succeed if you don't get a response

Example 2:

Response Rate: 50%
Success Rate: 50%

Example 3:

Response Rate: 3,000%
Success Rate: 100% for a month

Example 4:

Response Rate: -400%
Success Rate: 0%(then meets a hot Roe guy during Example 3's wedding, kick it off, meet IRL, marry, have 3 kids and live happily ever after

Example 5:

Response Rate: 80%
Success Rate: 100%(Will also later post the success story here. Because for some unknown reason only gay guys know how to make this succeed all the way and love each other)

This is so funny yet so very true. Poor lalas

[RayneLittlewinkle]

Hahaha It seems Magic Mal hit it right on the nail with that. I do hope everyone find someone though

[GoobShine]

Success can be found here but I do agree that it is rare. Main thing is to be yourself and be completely open with the person you are interested in and hopefully they find you interesting as well. Trust goes a long way and will help when you or the other person has a rough time.
Thankfully I’ve found someone on here that turned out to be a very good match for me, so I know it is possible to find people on here, it’s just not always easy.