This. Tanking Titan HM is the ultimate example. I stood there countless times doing a job a monkey could do, watching the rest of the party die off one by one. There was satisfaction in defeating him, but the process wasn't fun. Raiding is the last thing in the game that appeals to me, and now people in my FC are leaving because even that isn't fun anymore. It's just frustration.simply watching others succeed/fail at a mechanic and being powerless to do anything about it
The latest frustration for us is Rafflesia, but more specifically Thorny Vines. One vine connecting two people is usually simple enough for people to handle, but occasionally people run the same direction, I suspect because latency issues cause each person to think they're in front of the other, so they keep running, expecting the other to reverse course. With the worse vine configurations, one bad break can lead to a wipe, even if the rest of the run was flawless.One of the worst parts is that it's often difficult to determine who actually did something wrong, so how can we fix the problem? We attempt this fight twice per week, at most, and we've been doing it for months.
With frustrating raids and boring everything else, I'm about ready to quit. I would have quit after 2.2 if I didn't like my FC so much.