Afania, you're so far out there right now that it's amazing. You seem to be reading things that just aren't there.
Asura's the logical choice for new/returning players, there's not much of an argument to be made against it. There's more to do because there are more people to do it all with. No one's telling you to leave your LS/friends/intimate "connections" or whatever you want to call them. As I said, you (and whoever you play with) could do everything you're doing on Ragnarok on Asura, too, if you wanted, of course. A common misconception that people have in these types of threads is that Asura is overcrowded and unwelcoming (i.e. "I wait 10 mins for Ambu on Sylph so you must wait 30+ mins on Asura") which couldn't be further from the truth.
If it didn't present such a technical hurdle for the skeleton crew then merging all the servers together would make a whole lot of sense right now. End the game in the same spirit as it began, where "thousands of players will unite" and "experience a living, breathing, persistent world that exists 24/7 whether you're in it or not," as the
FFXI promotional video so succinctly put it. If I had a time machine and went back to 2004 to warn myself about how this game would change in its final years the younger me would probably slap me upside the head and call me a terrible liar. Avoiding social exposure used to be a trait of the stereotypical nerd/gamer and they'd use online games as a way of coping. Now we can't even do that anymore because nothing's allowed to get in the way of our multiboxing euphoria. Everything needs to be streamlined now, including the social experience. I mean, hell, we're using the 30 seconds it might take to warp from one Eschan portal to another as a reason to avoid joining a much larger population, so imagine the hassle of interacting with a stranger... In case anyone needs a reminder, we were all that stranger once.