This thread and post hit pretty close to home for me. I played XI up untill 1.23 of XIV when some friend convinced me to try that. I had a lot of fun, I had a network of people that could get things done had the nice Atmas, an Ochain, and a bunch of useful gear for abyssea. When FFXIV went down before 2.0 myself and some friends from XIV started playing again, many from scratch. We had an alright time, but it was also the first time I experienced the "Community." My friends that had played during abyssea were gone. I had a gaggle of new recruits with nothing. So I did what many suggest here. I asked for help. I asked for help on several forums, on several sites. You know what my responses were? It's not that hard, do it yourself. Why should we help a bunch of people that just abandoned the game and probably will again. You can duo it if you just do x y z. All the same stuff I see in here. I learned then in that moment that asking for help will NOT yield appreciable results in this game. If you cannot do it yourself, or are not on a specific job, you will not get it done.
I came back to XI because XIV has lost meaning to me. They are in a loop of content that punishes you for working at the beginning of the cycel and rewards you for waiting until the end. I wanted to give XI one last real shot because I always loved the game. I am once again finding myself with a community that says it's easy if you do just... But I am attempting to do just. I couldn't find a LS or a group that would allow me to do Delve, so I took the Alexandrite I was saving for my Kenkonken and sold it to get a delve win. I've been selling off my Dynamis curency to try and get JSE weapons. It's a long road with road blocks from other players constantly thrown up. I want to enjoy this game, and for the most part the only time I get to enjoy it seems to be by myself.
Letting people use trust in Abyssea would just ease off the noose on players trying to break into the content. I fail to see the problem. The more stuff players can solo, the more likely they are to endure through the extremely insulated community of this game until they finally meet the right people or have that breakthrough into doing the content they want.