Do you not realize that when people try to debate with you and you fly into a spiral of "YAH, YOU LIKE HITTING ME? HOW BOUT I HIT MYSELF SEE HOW YOU LIKE IT, I SHOWED YOU HUH" type posts it just outright kills any credibility you have, with
everyone? Even people like me who could see the logic in your posts begins to wonder if all your screws are as tight as they should be.
What I'm trying to say is, when you have an argument with someone, or they try to debate an opinion, instead of throwing a hissy fit like your mom just grounded you from going to see that killer Justin Beiber concert you were looking forward too because you stayed out with Frank a little to long, and even though he just wants to be friends your mom totally doesn't understand and thinks is dirtier... Try to just debate with them, argue your points without jumping on the crazy train, blowing past crazy station and barreling straight to crazyville where they sell crazyjuice which you chugged for 24 hours before posting.
Even if their posts aren't all together or are angry/butthurt, You should keep calm, respond coherently, and watch their credibility tank, rather than sending your flushing down the toilet with your Crazyjuice filled bundles of joy.
Edit1: For what its worth, My Opinion as to why FFXI is declining is because its 11 years old and SE is more focused on its new MMO than FFXI, and it really really shows.
Edit2: I was trying to remember what your responses reminded me of, I found it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5NylmdC_uEM ---- uses bigboy words... Just replace the word Dye with "Argue/Disagree". All it good fun.