The cure to being undergeared is aquiring a balanced party and focus upon being a dedicated healer. Red mage and bard are great choices to add to your party and duo Whm's with martyr are a force to recon with. I'm not an experienced whm myself but I know my battle set-ups as I'm slightly undergeared... I'm choosing to reset my gear at Ilvl 100 via my drg for my whm So I can be on a slightly better grounds to heal in audolin.. I too had a tough time going throguh aby on my whm and I figured I would just skip the content.. lol