What? You don't like point systems?
Okay. Get a different Linkshell.
While I am a sack in one of the most successful NA linkshells on my server, it's not like I'm not allowed to have my own Abyssea group too. It takes all of 3 people to do anything in Abyssea; 6 including mules if you want to absolutely cover every base at once. If you don't like the rules, go do shit with your friends instead. I mean, you're supposed to have way more friends than me, right? If so, that shouldn't be a problem at all.
Also, honestly I'd want to kick someone who sat around begging in the linkshell for help camping Empyrean items. Any NIN worth half a grain of salt can solo Briareus and his entire pop set. Getting people for Sobek is a no-brainer too, unless your entire server already has capped Stones of Balance (lol). I swear, people get less done when they moan and beg in ls chat waiting for someone to volunteer than when they just suck it up and do the NMs. People are a lot more willing to help someone with an ounce of initiative and self-reliance, too.