For what it's worth, I quit the game over three years ago only to come back about 3 month ago. So there may be some sort of 'shock' happening here.
Disclaimer, I'm NOT talking about brewed or previously acquired pop set {Lock On}s. I'm also NOT talking about shouts for equal participation/equal reward like 4 people grouping up to kill <seal dropper z> with each having 1 job locked.
With all that said, what is going on with all the 'charity' shouts I've been seeing these days? Is it just me? Is it just my server? Is this now the norm of FFXI?
What I'd define as a charity shout is a person or people shouting for help with a mob with virtually no reward or completely skewed rewards for those who answer.
Too often will I see people have shouts like these(which I consider as charity/no reward):
Shinryu {do you need it} {lock on} mail & knife 1/6 whm and mnk w/ proc
-I answer, join the party and find out shouter isn't brewing it; why does he get to lock not 1 but 2 top tier items?
<job A> <job B> seals {do you need it} 1/4
-This person wants to lot 2 seals but still have 3 people join. No I'm not talking about when people typo 2/4 as 1/4.
<timed spawn NM> {do you need it} {lock on} w/e all else FL 1/xx
-I join the party assuming I can lock 1 item which the shouter did not... nope! Shouter expects to get more people than the NM has drops and have everyone 'fight' for lots while shouter gets free/guaranteed drops.
<atma> {do you need it} ;may or may not job nazi
-I join, EVERYTHING is locked. Ok np I want the atma. Oh btw we have to farm the pop set . . . Oh btw, you have to stay to farm/pop 5 more after getting the atma. Some even go as far as not procing the atma until a few pops into it or the last pop.
How do people justify the idea that shouting for something takes so much effort that they are now entitled to such outrageous demands? It reminds me of the days when endgame LS leaders would gear themselves out on multiple jobs before gearing members.
As far as I'm concerned, if I have to farm the pop set and fight the fights then I'm 'entitled' to fair drop rules like everyone else... and so are the other helpers.
Inb4 'you don't have to join the shout'
Lastly, please don't strawman or argue the exception to the rule. But srsly, is it just me? Is it just my server? Is this now the norm of FFXI?