This thread is proof that opinions can be wrong, because not everything is a matter of opinion.
These kind of comments show you're a fascist. If that was what you were going for, then congratulations.
Aside from the fact that there are plenty of legitimate reasons to wanna skip cutscenes, saying that people should read the story or they're playing the wrong game is also factually wrong, because despite having a good and comprehensive story and lore, it's still the minor time investment in this game. If you compare the time you spend on any kind of story related content (quests, missions, cutscenes) to combat and grinding (EXP, skilling up combat/magic/craft, events), it's negligable for any kind of serious consideration.
Comparing this to other FF games is also pointless, because it's vastly different (and by design). The selling point for FFXI was indeed the story, because that's what people remember from FF games. However, the reselling point, which is the true reason 99% of people are playing this is combat, events, grinds, nothing at all related to the story.
Also, RPG are not about story (for those wiki-quoters among you, that's actually what wiki says too). It's about playing a certain role in a certain setting. It's about character development and relations. Sometimes it happens to be lore-related, but it doesn't have to be. Usually the story evolves from the characters that play in it, not from the surroundings and the environment outside of the characters, although they can be involved.
Fact is, RPG are centered on the player, not the story. Everyone is their own main story, and plays their character how they want to. It's like saying in RL you have to be interested in history, because that's what created the world we live in. It's a weak argument, because you impose your values, that the origin of our current state is somehow interesting or relevant to people, on others.
And for the record, I love the story and lore, and I never enter spammed a cutscene in my life, even at the expense of enter-spamming helpers that entered the Mammet fight without their WHM. But this point of view forcing everyone to adhere to your opinion is just fascism and I'd appreciate it very much if you keep this mouthbreathing bullshit to yourselves.